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take care of myself

all this while i thought that i’m healthy… do not have any serious health problems… and thinking that feeling tired is normal especially living in this hectic life.

i came across a free health check through the retina in a pharmacy. after taking pictures of my both retinas, i was diagnose lots of internal health problems… which includes my lungs, heart, kidneys, bladder, knee, small intestines, stress, pancreas, stomach, and tiredness. i was stunned! this is serious!

i need to take care of myself. i need to rest… and start eating right and according to schedule. well, i guess… most mothers always put their family first and herself second. mother’s day is just around the corner… i will take a break from daily routines and pampered myself… on the second thought… could i?

love life…

when i looked back to myself… one thing that i notice the most is… i’m too harsh and strict with my daughter. but not with my son. why? well… kalau kata orang dulu-dulu… “kalau muka anak perempuan sama dengan ibunya… maka panaslah.” is it true? or it’s just a myth? from the way my hubby sees it, it’s all up to me and he is right!

according to the book that i mentioned before… the first strategy in parenting is LOVE. absolutely!… the first thing you need in life is LOVE. LOVE from the AlMighty, LOVE from your parents, LOVE from your spouse, LOVE from your sisters and brothers, LOVE from your friends and finally… LOVE yourself.

of course i do LOVE my daughter. who doesn’t  LOVE your own child? but maybe i’m lacking of showing the LOVE to her. She’s 8 years old. who says she doesn’t need hugs and kisses? she still does. she still needs my cuddling and attention. but the most thing is, she needs me to listen to all her stories.

so… to all parents out there… please don’t make the same mistakes i did. even if you have young ones at home, don’t ever neglect the eldest. you need to manage your time to focus on each and every child. what i did was, after fetching my kids from the day care center… that is the time when i start to fully focus on them… listen to them and play with them.

what about me? well, you may have your own time to yourself of course! but only when they are asleep…

i always pray to GOD to give me strength and patience when my kids are around me and hope it will last forever. amin…